The Chains of Debt

I'm never going to be able to get out of my parent's house. My legal bill has climbed almost to $30,000 so far, and I'm not even divorced yet! And then there's my credit card bills on top of that. I'm trying not to get discouraged. I'm trying to be positive and believe there has to be a way out of this. I'm trying not to spend money and be frugal as I've always been. Meanwhile, my dear husband of 12 years and his bimbo spend and spend relentlessly on clothes, pedicures, manicures, vacations, Disneyland annual passes, etc. I hate being a burden on my parents who are sacrificing so much to keep me afloat. I hate not having a home of my own for my children. I hate being in so much debt and never seeing the end of it. I was always the saver, not the spender, in the marriage. Look where it's gotten me. I never imagined I would be in such financial ruin because of my selfish loser poor excuse for a husband.